How old should you be to catch a bouquet in a wedding?

because im going to a wedding 2moro and I made a bet that I would catch it.


But.... my parents say im too young 4 that (15 yrs old) and thats only 4 ppl 18 and older or that have a boyfriend in a serious relationship.

How old should you be to catch a bouquet in a wedding?
Every wedding I have attended with a bouquet toss, it was open to females of all ages. No one was offended in the least that kids were wanting to catch it and I think it is silly to get upset by that. In reality, if a 10 yr old (or whatever age) catches the bouquet, most people know she won't be the next to marry so why ban her from it because of someone being closed-minded?





I have attended weddings mainly where I am from but also other areas and never once seen the guy who catches the garter put it on the leg of the girl who catches the bouquet, so that is a nonissue.
Reply:You should be able to. It's friends and family. It's not like it's a whole bunch of teenage guys at a prom or something. If you catch the bouquet, maybe have your mom stand next to you while the guy puts the guarder on your leg if she is nervous, I'm sure the guy that catches it will have respect for you and your family and he won't be to "fresh" about going high up your leg, maybe just at your knee or something, like I said, it's a wedding with family. Have fun and catch that bouquet!!! ;o)
Reply:The bouquet toss is for all single women regardless of age and personally, I think it's really more for the younger crowd than the 18+ crowd. I know that I've felt like a complete moron standing on the dance floor as an adult.





See what age group wanders out to the dance floor for the toss and go along if everyone is your age. I think it's adorable when the kids are all out there trying to catch the bouquet. It's far better than watching a bunch of older women standing out there.





Bst wishes!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:By tradition, the woman who catches the bouquet is supposed to be the next woman to get married--that's why single women are asked up. Given that logic, all the women should be of marriagable age (so 18 sounds right). However, we all know that the woman who catches the bouquet is no more nor less likely to get married next than any other random selection, so I personally see no harm in anyone older than 12 being on the floor. But, it's not my wedding, so I don't get to help you. It's up to your parents and the bride if you're allowed to participate. But, if you're not, don't be too upset. There are plenty more weddings for you to go to and catch the bouquet at when you're a bit older. Have a good time!
Reply:I dont think it sould matter....its all a fun tradition and even though you are only 15, you should still be able to try and catch the bouquet. All its "supposed to mean" is that the one who catches the bouquet is the next woman to get married. Its not necessarialy going to work out that way. Heck I was 18 when I caught a bouqet at a wedding and that was 10 years ago....Im just now starting to plan my wedding for next year. Its just a fun traditional game and you should participate!
Reply:im having all the girls in on it at my wedding..why should it only be adult single women. its the next one to marry....realistically you probably are nto going to be but its not abuot that its about it being fun and having a good time. for another thing i met the man i am marrying when i was 16 so your mother should watch what she says because you could very well find mr right too. i am now 22 and getting married to that man. first and only person i ever had sex with only person i want to, and the only person i want to spend the rest of my life with..wtf the lady who said your too young beause the people who want to get married want to catch it just because your 15 doesnt mean you never want to get married....stupid answers i tell ya
Reply:It is for women that are of marrying age. Boyfriend isn't necessary, but that you be at least 17 usually is. At your age you really shouldn't be thinking of marriage. Since the idea of catching the bouquet is that you will be the next to marry, you should be in that mindset
Reply:I would try it as long as your parents says its okay. Ask the bride if she minds. Maybe she can toss it to you specially. I don't see the harm in it at all. Tradition says that the guy that catches the garter is supposed to put it on your leg, but since you are young, tell him to put it on your arm instead. That would be cute.
Reply:Anyone can catch it. I've seen kids and teens catch it before. No rules. The whole "you'll get married next!" thing is bunk.





But if the bride wants the guy who catches the garter to put it on your leg, then I would bow out in that case. That's not appropriate for someone your age (and, personally, I don't really think it's very classy for adults, either, but to each their own).
Reply:You are too young, I'm sorry. Catching the bouquet doesn't require that you have a boyfriend, but it does require that you be old enough to date and marry. The bet is invalid, unless the bride would be nice enough to hand it to you, and let you choose who to throw it to!
Reply:I guess it depends on the people but I feel that any single girl 12 and up should get a chance. I am sure lots of people disagree with me. Maybe the bride and grooms at wedding should annouce... "all single women this age and up" That way people would be doing as the bride wishes. Anyways, I feel your parents will be the deciders in this case.
Reply:It's supposed to be for women of marrying age, since it signifies "the next to get married," but practically every wedding I have gone to the little girls in front catch the bouquet, which just makes the whole tradition even more meaningless.
Reply:I agree, you're a little too young to be catching the bouquet. Just think about it this way, if a man 18 or older catches the garter, he has to put in on your leg. You're a little too young for an adult to be touching there. Just wait until you're 18. There's no rush.
Reply:There should be no age limit, and if your parents don't know, ask the bride!! At my wedding any and every non married woman or girl could attempt to catch it, including my 5 year old cousin! I have never heard of an age limit
Reply:I remember trying to catch the bouquet when I was a wee little kid. I always thought it was fun. I think your parents are reading a little too much into it. I doubt any of the adult single women are going to take it very seriously.
Reply:well i guess ur to young to do that because the ones that have to catch a bouquet need to have the feeling they want to marry
Reply:I was at the wedding last summer and a 14 year old caught it. I know it's just a fun little game, but it kind of sucked because she had no clue what the point of the whole thing was.
Reply:i think it okay if you tried to catch it. i caught a bouquet when i was 15. it's all fun anyways.
Reply:I don't think there is a set age limit, but I would hope that nobody attempting to catch it is under 18 - - so I have to side with your parents.
Reply:You can be 18 or older b/c I catched the bouquet at 18 by accident and my mom said it was OK b/c I was an adult.
Reply:Sorry, I agree with your parents. It should be single adult women.
Reply:No age limit any girl who is single can try to catch it!
Reply:i agree with your parents im 16 and i would love to catch one but its all in tradition and if you cant get married then you cant do it.....but your not alone in this want...lol
Reply:It's for single adult women, not teens...
Reply:At least 12!!!
Reply:you should be an adult! At least past high school age